...err, I mean
"Reflecting on Commencement."
Well, it’s here! Graduation Season, that is. It’s the time of year when several of our
friends, students, and/or family members are graduating from high school and
college. What an exciting time!
As a professional musician, I have already played in (at
least) twenty graduation ceremonies, with plenty more to come, I’m sure. It is always an honor to be part of the
musical ensemble that provides all of the audio “entertainment” for this
important ceremony.
Yesterday I joined the Bemidji State Wind Ensemble, under
the direction of Dr. Erika Svanoe, in their performance at the 2012
Commencement Ceremony at Bemidji State University. We played a 45-minute concert before the
ceremony (which included sight reading parts of Carmina Burana for me!), played
Pomp & Circumstance for 25 minutes, accompanied a music student on the
national anthem, watched the 90-minute ceremony, and then played some fun exit
music by Alfred Reed.
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Commencement was held at Bemidji's new Sanford Center, which is home turf for the Bemidji Beavers Hockey Team. They removed the ice rink for the commencement ceremony:) |
During the actual ceremony part, I was moved -almost to
tears- several times. I wish I could say
that this was a first, but it always gets me!
Everybody is so happy for everyone else and some students have worked
very, very hard to graduate. This particular ceremony was special for me
because it was my first as a faculty member.
Not only was I happy for the students who walked across the stage, but I
also took pride in their education, because I was part of it. I knew exactly how hard they had all worked
to be able to graduate, so the smiles on their faces were that much more
meaningful.
I had a lot of time to reflect during the ceremony (in
between commencement addresses, of course), and I’d like to share some of my
reflections with you:
1. In most collegiate music programs (and I can only speak
to music programs because I don’t teach other areas), you really do have to
work hard to earn your degree. If you
are currently a high school student considering a career in music, please know
this: most people have to practice, study, practice, rehearse, and practice a
LOT in college in order to initiate a successful career, let alone
graduate. If you are considering a
degree in music, or you already are pursuing a degree in music, make sure that
you are willing to devote most of your day to your studies! If you’re anything like me, this is a much-welcomed academic situationJ I love what I do, so I am so happy to
spend all of my day playing, learning about, or teaching about music.
2. When I saw the proud faces of the graduates, I knew that
they had been preparing for this day for a long time. They didn’t decide to buckle down last week
and secure that high GPA. My question to
those of you who are in high school or a college music program (but have not
graduated with your bachelor’s yet) is: Have you committed to music at the
level that you need to graduate? These
graduates achieved success because they traveled on a path over the last 4 (or
more) years in which they made good choices, maintained a regular practice/study
regimen, and retained a balanced lifestyle.
Have you started this yet? If
not, what are you waiting for?
3. Ok, I will get down off my soapbox. Another thing that I noticed was that almost
every one of the 1,000+ graduates had somebody in the audience cheering them
on. Isn’t that amazing? These students come from all over the (large)
state of Minnesota and several surrounding states AND even from a few other
countries! And almost all of them had
family in the crowd—even the international students! I also have very supportive parents, and
sometimes I forget how far they will go just to see me and show that they are
proud of me. If you have parents like
this, make sure you thank them and let them know that you appreciate their
support. I surely wouldn’t have gotten
this far without my parents!
4. At one point I noticed that amongst all of the graduates
lined up to approach the stage, a middle-aged woman was in line, and she didn’t
have the normal black robe on. She was
dressed in jeans and a t-shirt. She was
the last member of the group and the president soon illuminated who she was: in
February, her son, who was a senior, had passed away in February 2012. He would have graduated on Friday with his
class. She was there to accept his
degree for him. All of the
administrators gave her a tearful hug and she dignifiedly walked off the stage
with his degree.
Well it was certainly a wake up call.
Here we are, all so very happy and celebratory, and yet it
is easy to forget how privileged we are to not only graduate from college, but
to be alive! We take it for granted that
many of us live safe, comfortable lifestyles.
I for one, hope that I live to see 100, and might actually get a chance
to do that! I am very fortunate to be
able to live this life with freedom, and I get to pursue a career in music
too! It was a wonderful lesson about
cherishing life, all of the wonderful people that I know, and all of the great
opportunities that I have.
5. Since I played euphonium at the commencement ceremony,
this meant that I got to play a lot more of the melody than I usually play! And
yep, I played the melody on Pomp and Circumstance (which by the way, is way
more exciting than the bum-bum-bum-bum
part if you ask me….). How many times
did I play that melody? At least 30. With each repeat I had the choice of how I
was going to play that phrase: would I simply make sure I played the right
notes at the right time, or would I make each note the most beautiful sound
that has ever come out of my instrument?
Let me tell you, it was a much more enjoyable experience for me if I
chose the latter. It is not easy to play
perfectly, but how will you ever achieve it if you don’t try? I owe part of this inspiration to two of my teachers:
Jeff Nelsen, who has taught me a lot about Fearless Performance, and
Pete Ellefson, who has always upheld a high level of excellence in his playing and teaching.
It was a wonderful reminder that music is only boring if we
decide that it is. If we choose to make
each new phrase the most beautiful musical creation possible, I promise you won’t
get bored, and your audience will surely appreciate it.
6. Well, I think that
will be enough lessons for today. Now…go
practice!